Ok, so I decided to finally make a topic since I joined in 2006. As you'll read next, you'll think I have the biggest ego in the world to make a topic just because of that, but I think many other people have the same problem I do.

As the title suggests, I'm having a friendship problem. I met this girl at the beginning of this year and we created quite a bond. She's one of my best friends. The thing is - and most of you probably already know - is that I think I'm starting to like her. AAAAAAW. yeah, STFU. She constantly hugs me in a friendly kind of way, which makes me kinda awkward. Once, she was going to pass through me and, as I was sitting and had a table in front of me, she had to move her ass straight to my lap. I instantaneously said: "WHOA. Sexual harassment". She laughed and responded "I really don't see you that way, you're my friend." As soon as she said that, I had a flashback of that movie "Just Friends" and went "FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUCK"

I haven't told that to anybody, really. The only thing that made me post here is that I don't know any of you and don't give a damn for what you think. I just wanted help

The Rick has one friend. His name is Da Pig and he was bant for a stupid reason.

Whoa. 2006 and only 68 posts?
...that's worse than me.

Get more friends

omg tell her dude.

if she cant accept and respect you than she isnt that great a friend after all.

because i say it to my guy friends all the time.
whether or not i like em.

take a risk!

=O Rick why????????

totally agree =]

I guess you're right. I probably wouldn't go much farther with this omitting...

Whoa, for a second there I thought you were a girl and I would've been speechless. So according to your profile you're a boy so all I can say is do you want her?

He was receiving his daily lulz and some lulz killer named Kristandex bant him.

Damn Kristandex killer of the lulz.

Yes, you're mom likes them.

Edit: WTF? You changed your post (?)

Poor markuz.

dude im in the SAME situation.
im totally in love with my friend...but...hes my FRIEND.
whyy? =[[

edit:uh, well, not like in love, i mean, you know, were all really just kids...we dont really know what love is...do we?

So you understand it?

I had a friendship proble like this 2 year ago.
Me and this girl was/stll are the best of mates, i can tell her anything and same with her.
Well it was about a week after christmas 05 and well we started getting closer and closer.
The one night alcohol happened and we just randomly starting kissing.

A few days later she was oof, go out with me?
And i was like Helll yeah.

Then her exsaid he was gunna top himself >.>
But in the end im glad he did cus i found out, id rather be her friend and nothing more.

Theres times when she hugs me i feel like i did, but meh.
Im over it and have moved on.


BAsically just tell her, if she likes you try for it.
Just dont let the break spoil your friendship.

tell her, if you guys are best friends she will understand

its harder than that, though. if i could go up to ***** and just tell him i like him i would, but things are so complicated in these situations.

Yes. Uncertainty sucks

Get alcohol like Mortati Illuminati then just say you were drunk. Nah, just kidding. If you're gonna make sure you know how she feels about you, how you feel about her, she's not taken, and most importantly wear a condom.

WTF?

Oh, shit, you're a man! I thought you were a woman the entire time I was reading that, and I was confused/amused.

I fail to see the issue. A girl likes you. You like her. You know what to do.

I thought I made it really clear she considered me just a friend.

my thoughts exactly

just next time she comes for a hug hold her a little longer than she expects and see how she reacts.

Uh, no.

...I feel sorry for you.

...Not because you're confused, but because you had to post on a forum, asking on advice for this.

...

Just kidding.

If you're not going to try a simple little thing like that, stop fucking whining. You say she only sees you as a friend. Well that's settled then. Leave it and move on..

Hold her by the waist aswell.
Or one arm around the bottom of her back holding one side of her and the other running up her back to her shoulders (=
Should make her feel security (=

Works with me all the time (=

So? I'm "just friends" with girls, but that doesn't mean I can't do stuff with them.

Seriously - you don't need to date. Just fool around. It makes things less complicated.

If you want her do something if not tell her it won't work out but you still like her as a friend.

It's not like that... She said many times she couldn't see like that. Of course, not explicitly "I don't see you as a possible boyfriend".

And... I don't want to "just fool around". I think the ups of having a real relationship waits more than that.

No, you don't want a real relationship. You think you do. And it'll be all happy and fun, and you'll "love" each other, and you'll do everything for her, and spend $11,000 dollars on her, and a year and 10 months later she'll just roll around in a park, making out with your best friend.

Seriously, just screw around. It's a lot less shit to deal with, trust me.

I laughed at that

Good for you. It's true. You have two options:

- Date her, get fucked over
- Stay single, be miserable
- Do stuff with her, no emotional attachment, no issues to deal with, can still be friends, and you can be happy.

Pick.

You obviously have repressed feelings there. Go see a specialist.
btw, you should learn how to count.

Good for you. It's true. You have two options:

- Date her, get fucked over
- Stay single, be miserable
- Do stuff with her, no emotional attachment, no issues to deal with, can still be friends, and you can be happy.

Pick.




You do realize that is 3 options.

No, I'm just intelligent and realize that high school relationships are worth absolutely nothing. Everyone in this thread has tried to help you, and you've turned down every shred of advice. You obviously already know what's right, and if you don't, then you're screwed, and the situation will never resolve. Just shut up if you're not going to accept anyone's help that's posted here, because that means you just posted this thread to draw pity. No one cares about your issue.

If you can't realize that sometimes, people know more about a situation that you do, then you're screwed. But whatever - do what you want.





Initially I only had two options written for you, but I added a third in an edit.

I didn't turn down any option yet. I'm going to think about all of them, even yours.

Good. I'd just talk to her, like in depth about the entire thing, which will probable end up taking you 2 - 3 hours. It's worth it though, it'll end up in your favor, somehow.

You're right, we should talk. Besides, I think my limit of handling our friendship as if nothing else was going on is fading.

what grade are you in?

Why would that influence anything?

Yes it does... shi-

Even though I don't care what you think of me, everyone would treat me differently if they knew my real age.

13

No.

The Rick decides what age you are.

The Rick has picked 13.

ya, because i spend all my time to make fun of kids with their age.
Now seriously, how fucking old are you.

Oh, okay.



You're an idiot.

Is that the way to treat someone who is willingly trying to help some random person?

Now, are you going to keep dodging the question or are you going to tell me so i can give you some good advice?

Fred is not capable of giving good advice.

He once said to a friend "I'm not going to spend any money on this girl because I'm saving up for a xbox 360."

I don't need more advices. I have enough to think about what to do, and I probably already know. So, thank you anyway.



wel xbox 360 iz awesum1111!