Okay, I may sound like the most paranoid person on earth right now, but I need answers!

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 years plus. We are both 17, fairly mature for our age. This isn't just another teen romance!

We broke up once before, well it was more of a "break" than a break up, we continued going out again after about 3 months. In that "break" she did kiss one guy, but that was it. I had my suspicions about that one guy as well, and if I was right last time, what's to stop me being right this time?

So yeah, lately she hasn't been kissing me as much or hugging me etc. She says she doesn't feel the need to because she knows that I know I love her (what the sex bullcandy is that?!). Anyway, about 4 days ago, she came over and she did kiss me etc like she used to, but this was out of nowhere so it made me paranoid.

My friend has broken up with his girlfriend (for about 4 months I think now) and he's saying how he's desperate for sex. I don't like the way he talks about my girlfriend, never have. He always used to ask about her, like when I'm seeing her next what we do etc. He would talk to me, but about her? If you understand what I mean...

Right, so yeah, you get the general idea. I don't trust either of them at the moment. Here is the killer blow. Recently they have both been on MSN at the same time. I ask each of them general questions like who you chatting to etc, they always say each other in the list of names. ALWAYS. I honestly think she talks to him more than she talks to me! So yeah, lately none of them have been available like ever... But that's not what bothers me, it's the fact that they aren't ever available TOGETHER. It's at the same time. Today, my girlfriend was on the phone to me, and said "right, I got to go."
"Where you going?"
"Got to get ready..."
"For?"
"Uhh... I'm going out with my Dad" - THAT sounded very odd to me.
*ends conversation with bye etc*

Then my friend is on MSN and I ask "what you doing today?"
"got to read this book and that's about it.."
"oh cool"
Not long after this (about the same time it would take my girlfriend to get to his house he had to go really quick and his excuse was that he had to read the book now to get it over with... Bollocks.

Yeah, I've been texting my girlfriend today just trying to talk to her and she hasn't replied. She just replied (as I was typing this out) telling me I should wear a certain after shave. I have a feeling it's what my friend wears...

So yeah, What the hell do I do? I've asked her does she find my friend attractive and she said no he's ugly and creepy looking, but she seemed to answer really quick and like force a NO WAY down my throat. I know he finds her attractive, which does sex me off to be honest. IF they are cheating, I am going to kick the sexing candy out of my "friend".

Anyway, I don't know if I put the topic in the right place, feel free to move it mods. Just please don't close it, I do need some answers and help, and I'm sure there are many other users out there with similar situations as mine. Please keep it open and please help me out. Thank you Smosh members!

Sorry this was SO long!

Just like to add, that when she text me back, not long after my friend came back on line.

Get a bigger dick, be less paranoid, be more interesting, etc.
Understand that everyone cheats, and if your girlfriend was attractive to me and you were my friend, I'd steal her from you, too.

Sucks to be you.

Thanks for the help cock muncher.

I think your friend and I are too busy sexing your girlfriend to suck dick.

Oh God, okay... What ever. If you aren't going to at least give some sort of useful advice could you just not say anything at all?

you threaten to stab up her family if she doesn't confess. or you try and catch them off guard when you think they are together.

If a relationship doesnt have trust it is a very candyty and slowly deteriorating relationship.
Break up with her.


EDIT: When did the filter come into effect again!?!?!

I'm really considering this. I was thinking about it today, I could get to his house in less than 5 minutes on a bike. I'd catch her going to his house easily.

Don't go to his house. It'd be embarrassing for them when you walk in on them hardcore fucking.

Do itt faggot

my advice to u dude is, talk to ur girlfriend and ur friend on msn and when they say they both have to go, get up and go see where ur girlfriends going, be stealthy about it though u dont want her seeing u spying

Liking your idea...

For some reason i attract my friends girlfriends, it makes me mad because im very close to them, we basically live at each others houses, and we call each others moms "mom", is it just because im around them all the time? or maybe its because i walked in on my friend having sex and i happend to see his girlfriends tits?

look man, i know this is tough, but i went through something very very similiar to this.
if you are truly feeling the way you say in your original post, the relationship isnt worth it and you should end it

feel free to send me a message if you wanna talk about it more

dang dude, this is some bullsht. yeah i agree with the other posts from the other people. end the relationship. put an end to this crap. you've had enough right? slap that ho if your 100% sure that she's cheating. or beat the f--- out of your so called 'friend'

dang dude, this is some bullsht. yeah i agree with the other posts from the other people. end the relationship. put an end to this crap. you've had enough right? slap that ho if your 100% sure that she's cheating. or beat the f--- out of your so called 'friend'

i didn't mean to duplicate my post, sorry

Dump the bitch. Im not sure about other people, but in my experience, when i get a feeling or a hunch its most likely true.

Dont do any of that spy bullcandy. if she really wants to date you, shell come back.

Get an internet girlfriend instead.

Stab her in the pussy.

well hey now i'm a girl and stabbing her isn't very nice.

you should probably like. casually mention something if you think she's actin shadey. like, say something about how some random friend or uncle or someone that you know got cheated on and say something like. "it's just horrible, and i know i would never do something like that to you. you feel the same right ?" or... idk maybe a little more subtle.

just don't freak out to much, because there's still a chance it's all in your mind. <3

sorry, but topics that aren't allowed include:
forum rules here

sorry, but thinking your girlfriend is cheating isn't a valid discussion topic. best of luck though!

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