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In a modern day Romeo and Juliet tale, a 17 year old girl was stoned to death because she fell in love with the wrong man. Why was he the wrong man? Religion. Read the story for yourself at this link (which has pictures of her) or below. When I read this, I honestly cried. Flucken religious intolerance, how can people be so close minded? And all those men just stood there. If they were real men they would've done something. And did you notice nothing happened to her boyfriend? Sexism, though ofcourse I didn't want anything to happen to him. Its the sad truth that this is how things are over there. You have to stick to the rules laid down for you (especially if you're a woman), and if you set one foot across the line, there are horrible consequences.

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A teenage girl lies dead on the ground in a pool of her own blood. Her once groomed hair is cast across her face like a rag doll's, her skirt pulled up to complete her humiliation. In another image, she is seen lying on her side, her face battered and bloodied, barely recognisable. The concrete block used to smash in her face lies next to her. Du'a Khalil Aswad was beaten, kicked and stoned for 30 minutes at the hands of a lynch mob before one of her attackers launched a carefully aimed fatal blow.

The murder was carried out in public, watched by hundreds of men cheering and yelling. Du'a's crime? To fall in love with a Sunni boy. Her family practised the Yezidi religion. The Sunnis and Yezidis hate each other. When Du'a ran away with her Sunni boyfriend, a sentence of death was passed on her. This act of medieval savagery took place last month in a town in northern Iraq, in the fledgling 'democracy' created by Bush and Blair when they invaded the country in 2003 and 'freed' its people.

The sickening scenes, which defy belief in every sense, were captured by some of the observers and participants who thought it would be proper to record these harrowing events as some sort of memento. Perhaps they thought it would serve as a warning to other young people who dared to follow their hearts - not the strictures of a religion which will not brook dissent - and punishes adolescent impetuosity with the most brutal of public murders.

The killing was filmed on a number of mobile phones. The images were then - all too predictably - posted on the internet. The Mail takes no pleasure in publishing these pictures. But we believe our readers should witness the depths of the depravity still being carried out in the 21st century in the name of 'honour'. Perhaps, then, something can be done to prevent it happening again.

Of course, anyone who takes even a passing interest in news is all too aware of the tragedy that has engulfed the people of Iraq: the daily bombings, murders and kidnappings. The subjugation of its women, however, has been largely ignored. Yet according to cultural observers, the number of so-called 'honour killings' has increased in Iraq since the fall of Saddam Hussein. Campaigners say there is an 'epidemic' of such killings in the wartorn country. Autopsy reports in Baghdad often conclude with the verdict: "Killed to wash away her disgrace."

The filming of Du'a's death was just one more macabre element of her killing, but it has achieved something those bloodthirsty amateur filmmakers could not have predicted: it has brought such practices into the open and exposed them to the wider world.

It is, of course, too late for Du'a, a strikingly pretty young girl with long auburn hair. The 17-year-old must have hoped that the 'liberation' of her country would afford her opportunities she might otherwise never have had - for her education and a life of happiness free from oppression. She lived with her family in the town of Bashika, near Mosul. They were neither rich nor poor.

It is believed Du'a met her Sunni boyfriend - whose name is not known - several months ago. They had grown up in an environment where hatred against rival factions is the norm. The Yezidis - a Gnostic sect which combines Islamic teachings with Persian religions - despise the Sunnis; the Sunnis loathe the Yezidis.

Du'a and her boyfriend would have been all too aware that theirs was a forbidden love. But like so many teenagers before them, right back to the illicit love of Romeo and Juliet, they couldn't help themselves. For a while, they met in secret. It was during one such highly charged meeting that they came up with a plan to run away together. It is not clear whether this desperate measure was a result of their having sought and been refused permission to marry, or if they decided to do it knowing that such permission would never be obtained.

"Her family would never have agreed to such a marriage," says Diana Nammi, a leading Kurdish women's rights campaigner. Some Muslim groups have claimed that Du'a converted to Islam shortly before her murder. According to other reports, her boyfriend denies this.

They ran away together to an address in Bashika. The girl's family alerted the police and Du'a and her boyfriend were found just a few days later. According to Ms Nammi, who is calling for the girl's killers to be brought to justice, Du'a was arrested and put into prison. A few days later, the police apparently received assurances from the leader of her tribe - who Ms Nammi believes is Du'a's uncle - that the girl would not be harmed.

What happened next is the subject of conflicting reports. According to some, the house of the tribal leader was stormed by a mob and Du'a dragged out and killed. Ms Nammi, however, says she has information that it was the tribal leader who betrayed his niece to the mob. In this man's eyes, Du'a had committed an unforgiveable crime, punishable by death. The family's 'honour' had been besmirched. The moment Du'a was placed in his house, her fate was sealed.

On April 7, Du'a was brought out of the house in a headlock to face the lynch mob. Hundreds of men were waiting for her - the excited atmosphere is said to have resembled a large sporting event - but no women. On the video, Du'a's screams can be heard as she is dragged to the ground. In a further humiliation, her lower body has been stripped. Instinctively, Du'a tries to cover herself; only later was a piece of clothing thrown over her. She is surrounded by an enormous crowd jockeying for a good view of the ritualistic killing. About nine men take part in the attack, including, it is thought, members of the girl's family. To any father of a daughter, that a helpless girl should be set upon with such cowardly savagery is beyond comprehension. One can barely imagine her terror. It is a profoundly disturbing spectacle. One man kicks her hard between the legs as she screams in agony. Du'a tries to lift herself up, but someone hurls a concrete block into her face.

Another man stamps on her face. Someone kicks her in the stomach. Police officers stand idly by, some of them apparently enjoying the spectacle as much as anyone else. Meanwhile, some observers film the execution on their mobile phones - the modern world intruding on a spectacle that belongs more in the Roman arena than in an apparently civilised society.

After half an hour of this savagery, Du'a is finally - mercifully, perhaps - dead. In a final humiliation, a man tries to lift her up, but drops her again, and her bloodied body is rolled face down into a puddle of blood. The family has had its 'honour' restored. According to Ms Nammi, Du'a's parents did not want her to be stoned, though it is not clear whether they might have agreed for her to be killed in some other way.

After her murder, according to Ms Nammi, two men were arrested by Iraqi police, but she has heard they were subsequently released without charge.

Reports suggest that two of Du'a's uncles and four other people fled the town as investigators began to search for the culprits. It is thought these included her brother, who appeared in the video of the murder. As for Du'a's boyfriend - who has lost the girl he loved in the most awful circumstances imaginable - he went into hiding for a while, but it is believed that no action has been taken against him.

Du'a was buried in a simple unmarked grave. Later, says Ms Nammi, her body was exhumed by the Kurdish authorities, who have autonomous control of the region, and sent to the Medico-legal Institute in Mosul.

There her body was examined to find out whether she had been a virgin or not, before being returned to the Sheikh Shams cemetery. To our Western eyes, this posthumous assault on Du'a's body is the final insult. But according to Ms Nammi, it did at least establish that she was still a virgin and innocent of the 'crime' of which she had been accused.

However, Ms Nammi believes the mere fact that Du'a had run off with a Sunni boy would have been enough to have her sentenced to death.

Meanwhile, the cycle of tit-for-tat murders continues in Iraq. In this instance, in an apparent act of retaliation for Du'a's murder, 23 Yezidi workers were attacked and killed two weeks later, apparently by members of an armed Sunni group. The men were travelling on a bus between Mosul and Bashika when their vehicle was halted by the gunmen, who made them disembark before killing them.

Tomorrow evening, Ms Nammi, founding member of the Iranian and Kurdish Women's Rights Organisation, will lead a group of women meeting in Shoreditch, East London, to remember Du'a Khalil Aswad and give back to her the dignity torn from her by her violent death.

The women are pledged to campaign against the entrenched beliefs which lead to such senseless deaths - and the fact that the people who commit these crimes are not regarded as murderers, but as heroes of the community. According to Ms Nammi, there have been an estimated 10,000 cases of honour killings in the Kurdistan region in the past decade. Under Iraqi law, the punishment for anyone found guilty of an honour killing is just six months in prison.

"Something has to be done to stop this," says Ms Nammi, who came to Britain in 1996. "There is an epidemic of so-called honour killings. It is almost routine and utterly unacceptable.

"We would greatly appreciate any contribution from the British Government in preventing these murders of women in Iraq."

Ms Nammi has the support of Amnesty International.

"This young girl's murder is truly abhorrent and her killers must be brought to justice," says Kate Allen, Amnesty International UK Director.

"Unless the authorities respond vigorously to this and other reports of crimes in the name of "honour", we must fear for the future of the women in Iraq."

For the sake of 17-year-old Du'a, an innocent girl who simply fell in love with the wrong man, it is all too little, too late.
ATAxmaGURL
omgawd.intersting.
Korangutang
That is farking sickening. I was eating, too...sad.gif

The absolute animals. They should be the ones stoned.
nba185
oh mi gosh...

I don't know what to say..
Highlander
That's muslems for you
anima
QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

That's brainwashing and an obsessive stereotyping and generalizing attitude for you.
What_in_tarnation?
QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

dude don't be racist. mad.gif
Highlander
QUOTE(anima @ May. 19, 2007. 12:15 AM) [snapback]355886[/snapback]

QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

That's brainwashing and an obsessive prejudice for you.

Islam = shit
What_in_tarnation?
QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:17 AM) [snapback]355889[/snapback]

QUOTE(anima @ May. 19, 2007. 12:15 AM) [snapback]355886[/snapback]

QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

That's brainwashing and an obsessive prejudice for you.

Islam = shit

you = retard
anima
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Islam = shit

And yet another one. It's wonderful how when you point a flaw at someone, he/she almost always replies with something 10 times worse...

Don't you think that islam is more than the people committing these stupid incidents? In 1200, christianity did NOT send out crusades. It's the pope and his minions who did. The same goes for islam; integrists and extremists do the mistakes, yet no-one bothers to notice this and the whole muslim community gets blamed.

Btw What In Tarnation, it isn't racism. Islam is a religion and not a race. However, people tend to mix the 2... It still is horrendous to see that people think this way.
nba185
is what in tarnation? a muslim/islamic?
anima
QUOTE(nba185 @ May. 19, 2007. 09:22 AM) [snapback]355892[/snapback]

is what in tarnation? a muslim/islamic?

No. However, I also think that Highlander is a fucktard for saying what he said there, yet I am not a muslim/islamic either. Stones thrown at a whole community for the mistakes a minority transcend religious beliefs.
MyChemicalRomance-x
omg thats so sad.. RIP
What_in_tarnation?
QUOTE(nba185 @ May. 19, 2007. 09:22 AM) [snapback]355892[/snapback]

is what in tarnation? a muslim?

nah. i'm not anything. religion causes too many problems.

it's the extremist's that misinterpret their holy book and feel there religion is the only one that is right and try to enforce it.

also, people like highlander who see all muslims are terrorists and attack everyone.

what a fag!
Red Devil
That was really sick.
I don't know what to say.


QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 06:17 AM) [snapback]355889[/snapback]

QUOTE(anima @ May. 19, 2007. 12:15 AM) [snapback]355886[/snapback]

QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

That's brainwashing and an obsessive prejudice for you.

Islam = shit


Dude,stop offending people's religion.
SmoshRoxSox
......
Why.
Why kill her.
She just did what her heart told her.
hypnox
Omg ohmy.gif
nba185
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nah. i'm not anything. religion causes too many problems.

it's the extremist's that misinterpret their holy book and feel there religion is the only one that is right and try to enforce it.

also, people like highlander who see all muslims are terrorists and attack everyone.

what a fag!


I agree. religion is a VERY very sensitive subject. NOT ALL muslims are terrorists. those i know are educated and thinking straight.
imupsidedownsometimes
The author needed to be less outraged. News articles should present information, for us to react to, unless this was an obituary which I don't think it was.

But sad.
mad muffinz
that sucks, but why is it our reason to interfere into other peoples religon.
chicaliz4ya
wow thats wicked sad!!
ipequee
I dont think that thats really about "religion".
the same thing would happen to the 2 christian couple.
And im a muslim...Well, dont be a racist and dont say something bad about islam,please. Its all about respect.

And i cant believe that christian people insults the muslims and say "muslim ppl are bombing us just because of we're christians".
On smosh, i havent seen a muslim person saying something bad about christianity. They wouldnt do it, actually i wouldnt because i respect people's beliefs. Thats what all people has to do.
Just stop and think about it.

Those muslim people you called "terrorists" are living in the caves in Afghanistan or somewhere like that. They're bombing christians for political things and just hiding themselves behind the Islam. i dont call them "muslims" because islam says killing people or blaming people just because of their religions is the biggest sin.. Calling all muslims as a "terrorists" just ridiculous.


But...Poor girl..thats just not fair for them..
Aah,sick parents.!
toreen
Sometimes religions suck. The girl's dead for falling in love with someone she's supposed to hate?
Destructive
The girl did not deserve all that, afterall this is the 21st century. Just cruel!
the smoshettes
oh HELL no
this is purely insane!
love should never be punished. EVER.

holy crap.
Ofir
That's really sad =[
Leepay
It's sad when human beings lower themselves to these barbaric states.

I can't even call them animals because in this case, animals would be a step above humans.

These events are effect of the state of the world right now. Does religious practice really make you all that different? People can't understand things so they decide to destroy anyone who can and it's sad.
pink ponck
that is sick how people can kill others for falling in love.
**mcrlova4eva**
QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 01:17 AM) [snapback]355889[/snapback]

QUOTE(anima @ May. 19, 2007. 12:15 AM) [snapback]355886[/snapback]

QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

That's brainwashing and an obsessive prejudice for you.

Islam = shit

yoo fuckn racists are ass holes.
i hope every racist on the planet dies....
seriously GET A FUCKING LIFE
SuccubusMisao
her face scares me more ^^U
Lerf
Ok, maybe its because im english but what does stoned mean? i thought it meant you were high on drugs ?
Red Devil
QUOTE(Lerf @ May. 19, 2007. 03:35 PM) [snapback]356535[/snapback]

Ok, maybe its because im english but what does stoned mean? i thought it meant you were high on drugs ?

I'm not english,but I suppose it means to have stones thrown at you for doing something against the society's orders (?).
xoxenglishbabexox
This is just sick. How could you watch something like that and not even try to stop it?

There's no word to describe how awful stuff like this is.
KitKat
That is so cruel and horribly :'(
Camisado<3
QUOTE(What_in_tarnation? @ May. 19, 2007. 01:20 AM) [snapback]355890[/snapback]

QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:17 AM) [snapback]355889[/snapback]

QUOTE(anima @ May. 19, 2007. 12:15 AM) [snapback]355886[/snapback]

QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

That's brainwashing and an obsessive prejudice for you.

Islam = shit

you = retard

Exactly.

More like her (her?)= Fucking Ignorant.
bridgepanic
that's a horrible story... and will u people stop arguing about muslims, this isn't about them dammit! hate crimes are everywhere we just usually choose to look past them.
costa-k
kids these days, if only they learned to keep it in their pants they wouldn't have these problems
SmosherxMosher
that is so sad
and terrible
DeathByLove
wtf!
Smosh_Rox_57
thats just cruel..man...i feel sry for the sicko who killed her
(meaning i actually HATE the person who killed her)
imupsidedownsometimes
QUOTE(costa-k @ May. 20, 2007. 09:32 AM) [snapback]358550[/snapback]

kids these days, if only they learned to keep it in their pants they wouldn't have these problems

Some of us can't afford pants.
Darrin
I know Indie this stuff is sad. Me and my friend were flipping around channels and came across the title "woman killed for dating Sunni" and I didn't understand it at first, then my friend told me about Sunni being a race. It's basically the same thing as killing a black man for dating a white woman. Why the hell should race matter?
nataTTack182
Thats so sad.= (
hayley_xoxo58
wow. that is so sad that poor girl, people are so horrible.
cameraman
QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 03:17 AM) [snapback]355889[/snapback]

QUOTE(anima @ May. 19, 2007. 12:15 AM) [snapback]355886[/snapback]

QUOTE(Highlander @ May. 19, 2007. 09:06 AM) [snapback]355881[/snapback]

That's muslems for you

That's brainwashing and an obsessive prejudice for you.

Islam = shit


yall are all retarted! stop offending other ppls religions. hell, its what they belive in and u should respect that. sure they might not respect us. but mabye if we showed them respect they might start to show us respect. hell, most of u probably live in america or so other free country. tell me this, if your best friend converted to muslim would you or would u not treat them the same way. and you know what? that happended to me. my best friend converted to muslim. and u know what i respect that. sure we have or disagrements on religion but still i show respect for his religion and he shows repect for mine. if everyone starts to show respect for other peoples religion and every other belive or point of view they have no one will feal left out or unappreciated. if this happens it will spread through your contry then to other countries and eventually through the whole world! we will finnaly be in peace! we will never have to worry about something like this happening again! one litlle sing of respect turns into two signs of respect and then into four, eight! it just keeps on multipling! i guess what im trying to say is stop making fun of peoples religions, popions, skin color, or anything about thier personality or looks. and hell im not a perfect person. im a sinner tryin to make the world a little bit better. and yah im probably going to be called like a hippy, retard, deusch bag or somethin else. but if thats ur opion of me i respect that.
Yander
Thats really fucked up.
33SirEdward33
That is just sick, discusting, and wrong. How can people get a chance to take pictures of the girl and not help her. Where was this? Did the article say london? i didn't/couldn't read it all.
puppiesnfudge
Wow that is sad. I mean in this modern day reality things like this should not happen. This is beyond words to describe.

But keep in mind the lynchings that occured for black men dating white women. Some of these were just as bad if not worse then this.

Also keep in mind that in the olden Christian religion and probably other religions (I'm not an expert in some religions) women who lost their virginity before marriage were supposed to be stoned to death (Passage found somewhere in Levitucus). This probably did happen in the olden days. But in modern day something should have been done to stop this. Seriously those dumbfucks shouldn't have done anything like that. This is just an example of how extreme a religion can be.

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Cameraman religion isn't the only thing causing trouble in this world. World peace is something that probably will never come.
Kaylormonkey
This is just plain wrong. I mean, how do I even describe this feeling? I will never expeirence something like this, living in a tiny city in Ohio, I've never even seen a dead person or gang of any sort. The pain for me to read that is so bad. I wanted to be there, to help her. To stop her suffering. Why didn't anyone help her? This is just... wow. I can't possibly imagine. People do stupid shit all the time, weather it be jumping from a car to skydiving, but when it's racist or religionist(?) it's just irresponsible and unforgivable. She loved him! Why is that so wrong?
The sad thing is, they're right about one thing. Shit like this happens all the time, and I know it's hard for us to do something, but we really can't say much about it when were sitting on our asses drinking Diet Pepsi and watching Comedy Central, not over there DOING something.
##pirategirl##
haha, what a failure of a religion
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