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BeautifulKissOfDeath
how do u tell ur real mom that u want to live with dad?
my parents are devorcied and have been since i was 1, my mom marriedthis guy, who does not like me at all, we yell and fight and he turns my mother against me...
i want out and to live with my dad, if u have any advice, please post,
-N-
tell your mom that you dont like the guy and you are willing to move with your dad, and if she doesnt agree just talk to your dad smile.gif
LinkinParkLuvs
Just say it. What else can you do?

"Mommy, I love you- but I want to live with dad, dammit."

In all seriousness, that's what you have to do.
flaming-ace
thats a tough one, i have no clue how you go about that

there is one idea just leave and go to your dads biggrin.gif

no but that is a hard one
Red Devil
Go and talk to your dad about it directly,I say.
ShayCostello
if your mom says no then talk to you dad ask him to fight for custody [idk if i spelt that right]
mikeshox
tell her this
"bitch u choose or him or me"

tell her this
"bitch u choose or him or me"
BasketCase
talk to your dad and get him to talk to her.
hypnox
Sit down with your mum and just talk about it..
nataTTack182
you tell her.
fredman555
you say your new dad is being an ass to you and you want to go live with your real one
alexa
I thought this thread was going to be

"How do you tell your mom you are pregnant? Because I am."

But all of the above suggestions I agree with. 'Cept for Mike.
boobookittyf*ck
Say "It's me or him, bitch." and storm out.

Go to the nearest payphone and tell her she has 5 minutes (or however long until you get home) to have him out, or you go to live with your dad.
nataTTack182
QUOTE(alexa @ Jun. 28, 2007. 09:33 AM) [snapback]434907[/snapback]

I thought this thread was going to be

"How do you tell your mom you are pregnant? Because I am."

But all of the above suggestions I agree with. 'Cept for Mike.


wow that sucks for you.
Razor_Daizy
My mom and dad are divorced too and have been before I could even remember. I don't think I'd want to live with my dad. But you should just sit your mom down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel about your step-dad and ask her if you can move in with your dad. But unless you and your dad get along really well I would consider it for only a little while as of right to see how it turns out.
BeautifulKissOfDeath
Thanx guys happy.gif i apreciate this ALOT lol,
its just kinda hard, but ill probbly sit down with her,

lmao, as for mike.... well, my mom is a major bitch but i dont think ill call her that while talin to her wink.gif

thanx a bunch happy.gif
##pirategirl##
My advice to you, sir, is to be checked for dyslexia.
PLEASE.
Foobs
Evie why are you such a bitch lately?
mikeshox
QUOTE(alexa @ Jun. 28, 2007. 02:33 PM) [snapback]434907[/snapback]

I thought this thread was going to be

"How do you tell your mom you are pregnant? Because I am."

But all of the above suggestions I agree with. 'Cept for Mike.

sad.gif
mean


QUOTE(boobookittyf*ck @ Jun. 28, 2007. 02:41 PM) [snapback]434917[/snapback]

Say "It's me or him, bitch."

thats wat i said
##pirategirl##
Ooh it's unlocked.


I always leave sarcastic comments in noob threads.
It's my way.

That, or a picture of my face on Jesus' body
ngard
Say that your step-dad molested you. There, problem gone.
kelstwa

either way, whatever your problem is, you should be reasonable.
and think about it if you were in your parents shoes.

Make sure that if your trying to tell that you wanna live with your dad, you have a list of LEGIT reasons why. If it's because you don't like her rules, or you don't like your house, that's rediculous. if you don't feel secure in your house, if you feel your education would be better, if anything that would reasonably assist you, then say it.

remember - your parents only want the best for you.


About the pregg thing,
make sure you know what you want to do first.
If you want to keep it, your 'speech' needs to focus on the fact that you are going to need their help.

if you dont want to keep it, then you need to focus on how you need their support and their understanding to let it go.
and remember - it's YOUR body. don't let them tell you what to do with it.

and make that clear to them, but dont get aggravated or angry.
BeautifulKissOfDeath
QUOTE(##pirategirl## @ Jun. 28, 2007. 12:44 PM) [snapback]435063[/snapback]

My advice to you, sir, is to be checked for dyslexia.
PLEASE.


Oooh someone is a little bitchy 2day, i dont have dyslexia whore

QUOTE(kelstwa @ Jun. 28, 2007. 12:59 PM) [snapback]435077[/snapback]

either way, whatever your problem is, you should be reasonable.
and think about it if you were in your parents shoes.

Make sure that if your trying to tell that you wanna live with your dad, you have a list of LEGIT reasons why. If it's because you don't like her rules, or you don't like your house, that's rediculous. if you don't feel secure in your house, if you feel your education would be better, if anything that would reasonably assist you, then say it.

remember - your parents only want the best for you.


About the pregg thing,
make sure you know what you want to do first.
If you want to keep it, your 'speech' needs to focus on the fact that you are going to need their help.

if you dont want to keep it, then you need to focus on how you need their support and their understanding to let it go.
and remember - it's YOUR body. don't let them tell you what to do with it.

and make that clear to them, but dont get aggravated or angry.


Its not because i dont like their rules, its because i dont like the fact that my step dad yells at me, calls me a slute, whore, stupid, ect.
I also happen to not like the way he treats me, he does hit me, i tell my mom and she wont believe me. he tells her i lie alot, which i dont!
And also, i hate her neihborhood, its getto. alot of ppl do drugs where i live and, u could go out for a walk in no make up and a big jacket, and the guys will still come up to u and ask ' hey baby, u live around here?'

THAT is why i want to live with my REAL dad, and we get along alot better.

btw, im not pregg, lol
scream_att_me
If you're a guy, just tell your dad your a homosexual and he'll dis-own you


edit: i got this backwards and thought its was telling your dad you want to live with your mom
ngard
QUOTE(BeautifulKissOfDeath @ Jun. 28, 2007. 05:42 PM) [snapback]435173[/snapback]

QUOTE(##pirategirl## @ Jun. 28, 2007. 12:44 PM) [snapback]435063[/snapback]

My advice to you, sir, is to be checked for dyslexia.
PLEASE.


Oooh someone is a little bitchy 2day, i dont have dyslexia whore

Someone's on their period. Did your stepdad beat you?
scream_att_me
QUOTE(BeautifulKissOfDeath @ Jun. 28, 2007. 02:42 PM) [snapback]435173[/snapback]

QUOTE(##pirategirl## @ Jun. 28, 2007. 12:44 PM) [snapback]435063[/snapback]

My advice to you, sir, is to be checked for dyslexia.
PLEASE.


Oooh someone is a little bitchy 2day, i dont have dyslexia whore


nawdawg she's a stupid whore. mhmm evie
Mika
My advice is to be a complete bitch to your mom. Do the opposite of everything she tells you. Hell, you can even start destroying her house. Eventually she'll want you to go to your dad.
andyrew93
yeh hahahahahaha
fluer
QUOTE(##pirategirl## @ Jun. 28, 2007. 08:44 PM) [snapback]435063[/snapback]

My advice to you, sir, is to be checked for dyslexia.
PLEASE.


Ugh. Full of wit, obviously.






On topic....

Tell your mum how you're feeling and if she doesn't listen just go to your dads without telling her. She should take your side before him, she needs to get her priorities straight.
scream_att_me
QUOTE(fluer @ Jun. 28, 2007. 03:42 PM) [snapback]435265[/snapback]

QUOTE(##pirategirl## @ Jun. 28, 2007. 08:44 PM) [snapback]435063[/snapback]

My advice to you, sir, is to be checked for dyslexia.
PLEASE.


Ugh. Full of wit, obviously.






On topic....

Tell your mum how you're feeling and if she doesn't listen just go to your dads without telling her. She should take your side before him, she needs to get her priorities straight.

i thought evie was funny


and btw, that was the crappiest advice ever
TK421
Jump on the 4chan party v& with me.
scream_att_me
You should just do what every other cool teenager does and runaway
dustybabe
Get your dad to help retaliate against your mom. Or just simply tell your mom your true feelings. My parents have also been divorced since I was 2. I live with my mom and step-dad, but I see my dad as much as I can. I used to have major problems with my step-dad, but now I only really talk to him to ask him questions like, "can I have some money" or "where's mom".
tantrid
lol tll ur dad to take u away XD
Axel2992
Well first, you have to talk to your dad. What if you break your mom's heart about it and the your dad doesn't even want to live with you? You say it's been going on since you were 1, so it's definently a possibility. When you talk to your dad, if he agrees then both go talk to your mom. If he tells you to piss off, then you're fucked. Fucked hard. But hey, couple years and then BAM! college.
##pirategirl##
i lov scream att me
J-Me
Talk to your mom and dad together and tell them how you feel.
boobookittyf*ck
QUOTE(mikeshox @ Jun. 29, 2007. 05:51 AM) [snapback]435069[/snapback]

QUOTE(boobookittyf*ck @ Jun. 28, 2007. 02:41 PM) [snapback]434917[/snapback]

Say "It's me or him, bitch."

thats wat i said

My bad. I wasn't gonna read everyone else's shitty advice. tongue.gif
gab<3
ick id be like well you know id like to live at my dads this whole stepdad thing isnt really working out for me so ill just pack my shit and leave kay?
BeautifulKissOfDeath
....... i shouldnt of even asked, sad.gif u all seemed nice at first but now ur making seem like a joke,

thanx a bunch...

but i do really give thanx to the ppl who were seriouse in this post.
anyways, l8ter...
Smoshluvva x
I wish you good luck anyway.
ngard
Pop your mom one in the ovaries. Then when she's in a coma you can tell her what you want.
Gerev
Well, you can always tell your mom that you can't stand living with her husband and ask her to talk to him.. it'll either make your life easier, or make your mom expect your next move.
C-Sizzle
Sit down and talk to your mom about how your not enjoying your time with your step-dad and you beginning to just hate living in the house with him. Just like what Gerev said she expect your gonna try to move out. She might take some action and make it not a living hell. But if she doesn't, contact your dad and see if he will be interested in taking you in. Then if you have a yes go to your mom and say, "Mom i don't like it here at all. I already called my real dad and he said i can live with him. So i'm going to move out."

Hope i helped
sunkissdbabe007
hmm. well tell ur mom, be like "mom, i love you but this guy is making it suck living here and i rele dont want you to take this the wrong way but i think i want to live with dad."

srry its not that great of advise but i think being straight forward is a good thing ya know? good luck :]
TK421
Don't do what these cunts say. Listen to the voice of reason.

QUOTE(TK421 @ Jun. 29, 2007. 12:24 AM) [snapback]435330[/snapback]
Jump on the 4chan party v& with me.

Smoshrules4321
i would just tell her in a very calm way when she is relaxed and not to uptight.oh, and make sure you are alone. make sure you are honest.




Good Luck!





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nba185
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how do u tell ur real mom that u want to live with dad?
my parents are devorcied and have been since i was 1, my mom marriedthis guy, who does not like me at all, we yell and fight and he turns my mother against me...
i want out and to live with my dad, if u have any advice, please post,


how old are you now?
Hmm.. Don't fight it out with your mum, talk to her.
If she doesn't listen, try negotiating.
Buttchin
run away or somethin
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